Three Month Pantry Storage

My first bit of advice would be to build a food supply as close to your family’s preferences as possible. Your family is going to be eating from this food stock up, so it should be as close to the food you would normally eat. Keep in mind that if you buy canned goods you need power to cook them with, so–do you have a backup generator, or a cooking stove and fuel?

Second—make sure your food supply is safe, dry, sealed tight, kept clean, cool, and rotated with each and every use. Long-term rice and flour storage tips can be found here and here .

If you live in an apartment like I do, you may have to build your own pantry by sectioning off an area in your apartment and storing your food supply there. We’ve had a pantry area in our apartment for years that we created with shelves bought at Home Depot. The room it is in is usually cool, even in the summer, and we have sheets thrown over the front of the shelving to keep all sunlight away from our supply. We also have cooling/sun shading curtains on our windows to keep heat and light out of that room as much as possible. It may not look pretty, but our dry goods are safe, easy to rotate, and this has worked for us for years.

I also have a seasonal larder–one where I keep an eye on seasonal produce being sold, create a meal plan, buy it, wash it, cook with it, and also store and preserve the extra produce I buy. My seasonal larder takes some work–first I need to meal plan for the season  (May-December). A plan that incorporates fresh food as it comes into season. Once I have a plan, then I need to develop the budget, and if I don’t have adequate suppliers, start looking for farmers or farm stands that will keep me stocked up on fresh produce at competitive prices. Once I’ve been to market or traveled to a local farmer’s store or farm, I then bring the produce home and wash it, process it, store it, or start creating meals from it. Some will go into the refrigerator, some into the freezer once washed and processed, and some into meals–with leftovers being turned into freezer meals. Plant starts-veg and edible flowers will be planted, seeds will be sown,  w/fruit eaten right on the farm (sometimes), meat repackaged into smaller portions, eggs in the refrigerator, and dry goods into the pantry. I often buy freshly ground flour,  maple sugar, misc. baking ingredients from a local Mennonite store. 

The list I’ve created includes what was in my mother’s pantry in the 1970s and 80s. My grandmother’s pantry in the late 1880s and early 1900s would have included a lot more home canned items. My great grandmother’s pantry in the mid-1800s probably had 3-4 items considered dry goods,  root vegetables in a root cellar, and brined meat. As time has gone on pantries have changed quite a bit. Now, modern day pantries are filled with pre-made meals, boxed and canned items to complete meals, meals in a can, tinned fruit and tinned vegetables and lots and lots of beans, rice, and snacks. There are also pantries built to hold modern day appliances, dishes, and home decor–which, of course, won’t be discussed on this blog. =)

Remember to keep in mind that if your family doesn’t eat things like oats, then don’t buy oats. If you don’t know how to make homemade bread, buns, pie crusts, or pizza crusts, then you won’t need to buy tons of flour, but try if you can, when you can, to make your own bread. The first few loaves are pretty sad looking–don’t give up!

Here is the list in PDF form pantryessentials23

Other condiments/spreads

Peanut butter, other nut butters (how could I forget Peanut butter?)

Oils other than seed oils if so inclined–jar of bacon grease, lard, or tallow

Cleaning

Vinegar

Baking

Flour (all-purpose)-general rule if you bake often is have on hand per person between 65-75# of flour per three month period of time. I don’t bake a lot, but do know how to make bread, pie crusts, and pizza crusts. So when I have those things in mind to make I make sure per 3 month cycle of time to have 60# of flour in storage (20 # per month for 3 months). There is just the two of us so 60# has worked out fine.

The above mentioned in whatever quantities you plan to use them should give you what I would consider a well-stocked pantry. You should be able to bake rolls, pie crusts, pizza crusts, cakes, cookies, and season your cooking–meat & veggies with the seasonings I’ve mentioned. I grow rosemary, thyme, oregano, and the spices for the Herbs de Provence less the chervil, marjoram, tarragon, basil, and fennel.

As far as pantry goods for meals–make sure what you have on hand is something your family eats and that it is preserved safely in containers if you plan on keeping it in stock longer than 3 months.

Purchasing: when you can as you can, try buying at the lowest price you remember it being, buy one get one, coupon item, purchase what you can store safely.

Only you can determine how much of any one thing your family needs for a 3 month supply. For our two-person household, I have cans of bush’s baked beans, soup, tuna, salmon, some white rice, honey, maple syrup, condiments, and backups of baking ingredients. Wisconsin winters can be tough. We rotate to keep our supplies as fresh as possible.

xoxo

Summer’s End

Labor Day weekend is upon us. In a blink of an eye, I went from just getting over the fact we had an epic fail barbequing on Memorial Day weekend, to now, the end of summer. How did this happen?

Honestly, I’m sad.

My summer times have changed so much over the years. We used to go hiking, biking, and travel all over during the summer months. But, for various reasons our summers have turned into nursing a sore leg, my husband’s feet issues (plantar fasciitis) and our senior kitty who is now completely deaf. No complaints, I am happy to be alive and things could be way worse. I’m just sad because as summers go by, I’m guessing times of being (or feeling) younger and biking and lots of travel are probably over for us. I wish we both had appreciated those experiences a little more. We kind of took them for granted and acted like we’d always being doing them. I know once we are in our forever home–we will definitely be busy taking care of it for the first few years. So, I guess we’ll live with the memories and going forward learn to appreciate our experiences a little bit more.

The beginning and end of the seasons passes by faster every year. I know my elders told me this when I was growing up. I know it to be true. But, I still wonder why and I’m serious about figuring out a way to slow it down.

Where spring is the season of renewal, summer is the season of full bloom and fruit (+the fruit of our labors). A time to restock, replenish, and, of course, rest. I love the warmth, the sound of, the feel of, every single thing about the growth of, color, life, and light, of summer.

Summer is almost gone. Get out and enjoy the last little bit of the new life it brought with it. Soon, all the insects will tuck back into bed, the forest floor will begin to break down all those beautiful leaves, days will be shorter, longer nights, and then cold.

xoxo

August reset


🌿 August Reset: A Gentle Pause Before the Final Push

August is the soft exhale between summer’s wild bloom and autumn’s golden discipline. It’s not quite the end, not quite the beginning. It’s the stillness before the turn.

In many ways, August feels like a second chance at a new year.

By this point, we’ve lived through over half the calendar year—some of our intentions from January may have bloomed beautifully; others wilted quietly. Life has shifted, as it always does. And that’s okay. Growth isn’t always linear. But August? August invites us to pause, reset, and breathe.

Here’s how to embrace an August Reset—gently, intentionally, and in alignment with who you are now (not who you thought you’d be back in January).


✍️ 1. Reflect Without Judgment

Ask yourself:

  • What have I learned so far this year?
  • Where have I grown without even realizing it?
  • What goals still resonate—and which ones don’t fit anymore?

August isn’t about pressure. It’s about awareness. No shame, no guilt—just honesty.


🧹 2. Clear Your Space (And Mind)

Declutter one small area of your life—your desk, a drawer, your inbox, your thoughts. Make space for clarity.

Try a simple ritual: light a candle, make your favorite drink, and write down what you want to leave behind this month. Burn it (safely) or tear it up. Let it go.


🌱 3. Reset Your Habits

Choose one habit that will support your well-being and energy for the rest of the year. Not ten—just one.

Maybe it’s:

  • A nightly wind-down routine.
  • Drinking more water.
  • Stepping outside every day.
  • Logging off by 9 p.m.

Reset doesn’t mean overhaul. It means realign.


📆 4. Revisit the Vision

What do you want your life to feel like as the year closes?

Not the achievements or the numbers—but the rhythm. The atmosphere. The peace. Then, ask: what small shifts can you make in August to start cultivating that energy?


💌 5. Write Yourself a Letter

Write a note to your December self. Describe what you hope they’re proud of. What you hope they feel. What you hope they remember about this August—that you slowed down long enough to hear yourself again.

Seal it. Save it. Open it when the year ends.


Final Thought

You don’t need to catch up. You’re not behind. You’re right on time.

Let August be your gentle invitation to begin again—not from scratch, but from experience.

Happy Reset Season 💛

Understanding Perimenopause: My Personal Journey

First things first what is perimenopause? Perimenopause is the period (pardon the pun) right before menopause. Symptoms can include-hot flashes, breast tenderness, lower sex drive, fatigue, sleeping difficulties,  urine leakage, and urinary urgency. These symptoms can last four months to ten years. Perimenopause ends when 12 months go by without a period. Once the 12 months go by without a period you are officially in menopause.

Two things prompted me to think about writing up a post about perimenopause and feeling fit and young at 52. About a year and a half ago, when I had just turned 50, I accepted a job offer that included a health exam. When asked when my last period was I promptly stated, I have my period today. The health tech stopped writing, looked me dead in the eyes, and said “You still get your period?” Um why yes I do. I’m 50 years old, I’m not dead. I don’t think she would believe it if I told her, now almost two years later, I still get my period. Like clockwork too, every 28 days and I’ve never missed one yet.

Is this normal? Well, it’s not abnormal. Yes, most women do begin to miss periods and experience menopause at my age. I’m just not one of them. The road to puberty, some forty years ago now for me, was very difficult. Very difficult. I expected that the duration between middle age and menopause to also be somewhat difficult, and if not difficult, unique to me.

Aside from needing to lose a few pounds I am a very healthy almost 52-year-old woman. Yet I have experienced over the last ten years’ symptoms of perimenopause. To be clear I haven’t experienced them for the full 10 years but I have had some symptoms off and on for 10 years. My health checked out fine and my hormone levels checked out within normal limits, so I’ve learned to deal with them. In the last year it’s been hot flashes, for a few years it’s been sleeping difficulties. I’ve also experienced an increased sensitivity to smells. Which didn’t change things too much for us, we’ve never used any strong sprays personally or in our household- things like febreeze or deodorizers or smelly laundry soaps. I clean our home with good hot soapy water and almost everything we use to clean and wash is unscented.

The second thing that prompted me to write this post was overhearing a woman in Target, approximately my same age, speaking about herself as if she was ready to pack it all in by calling herself an old gal.  To be sure being 52 years old isn’t being a teenager but being old or feeling old is a very subjective term. At any age we can have muscle aches or feel fatigued or feel exhausted. I see people all the time thirty years older than me riding bike and walking paths that I at 52 am just working up to. I’ve seen thirty-year old’s too tired to do anything after work but sleep and at the same time seen a senior citizen volunteer for 10 hours and go home and work in the garden. It all boils down to how well we take care of ourselves; the food we eat and our level of exercise and rest. Attitude also has a lot to do with it, it may be the single most important thing next to taking proper care of yourself. I’ve never been one to hop on trends, fall for gimmicks, or see doctor after doctor searching for ?

Throughout the years I’ve changed my diet to what it is now. After all that’s what my blog has been all about. Here are some things I’ve eaten, or tried eating to help with symptoms of perimenopause:

  • I eat more foods rich in Vitamin D, I get outside as much as I can, and when that isn’t enough I take a supplement. Foods rich in Vitamin D- milk, cheese, tuna and salmon.I am unable to eat soy in any form, so that option is out for me. I eat 2 veggies and 2-3 fruits per day. A banana a day is a constant in my life, so are salads, cucumbers, eggs and salmon.
  • I’ve always been found to be low in iron. In the last few years I’ve started to include foods rich in iron and I think by doing this I have helped my health and perimenopause symptoms immensely. Iron rich food- red meat, chicken, leafy green vegetables (spinach-yum), and nuts.
  • I’ve cut down on sugar, fatty foods, all processed food (to almost no processed foods at all).
  • I drink 6- 8 oz glasses of water a day plus a large glass of organic milk. I do not drink alcohol in any form and haven’t for years, thirteen years to be exact.
  • Get plenty of rest- if you can. I get approximately 7 hours of sleep a night. I take a nap on both Saturday and Sunday. Despite what experts say, I nap when I can and feel wonderful afterwards. Short naps work best for me- 30 minutes to one hour.
  • This tip may seem like TMI, I assure you it is meant to be helpful. Stop using the conventional sanitary products sold in stores and opt instead for Mama pads or a diva cup. I purchased my first Mama pads on Etsy fourteen years ago and have never looked back. The chemicals in even the unscented sanitary products are really really bad for sensitive areas, especially as sensitive as they will get during perimenopause and menopause. Initially I thought it would be gross to use washable pads. It isn’t. They’re soft, easy to wash, easy to wear and so much better for you- health wise to name the most important issue. They last for years with proper washing and save you a ton of money not buying store bought.
  • This tip is unique to me- stop smoking. I stopped almost thirteen years ago and I have never looked back.  The risk of colon and breast cancer increases in women over 50 who smoke.  Enough said.

So those are the physical tips. What about the increase in emotions- sadness, depression, and irritability? Well, eating right and sleeping well is half the battle. Good whole food is good for your body and your mind. That said I do the following things to keep my spirits lifted:

  • I buy myself flowers every month, sometimes beating my husband to it. Flowers make me happy, plants do too.
  • Stay away from sugar if you can- you get a high and then inevitably crash.
  • Stay away from too much caffeine- for the same reasons that you should stay away from sugar.
  • I use aromatherapy to help with my moods- orange, lemon,  and apple.  I grow herbs- rosemary, thyme and lavender.  I make soap and sachets with the lavender and use rosemary and thyme almost every day. I rub both between my hands- fresh or dried and add to soups, stews and meats.  I also take naps when I can, soak my feet in epsom salts and set two hours aside each day to do the things I want to do- watch silly movies, read, work on my blogs, take photos, garden.
  • Get outside, walk, bike or light cardio- I bike a couple of times a week and my husband and I walk 2+ miles every weekend. We walk and workout in the winter. I love walking and I love biking, but aside from that I am not much of an exerciser. I do cardio workouts- I use a treadmill all winter. I would love to find the time to learn yoga and meditation.

Turning 50 was and still is fabulous to me. I’ve always felt much younger than I biologically am. I owe part of this to marrying a much younger man and part of it to my state of mind which I feel is often very positive and upbeat. You’re only as old as you feel and I still feel fabulous. No rocking chairs or being called old gal allowed in my house. Staying active and staying healthy is a good start to helping you get through the varied symptoms of perimenopause and menopause.   There are a few books written about it, but for the most part discussion is silent. I hope I’m helping to change that with my post. For years I’ve discussed these very personal issues with my husband. He is and has always been very understanding (and genuinely sympathetic) toward me and some of the issues I experience as a woman. He is way more understanding of my mood swings and my need for rest or me time than your average man is, and I like to think that is, because I’ve talked to him openly about issues that affect women.

Update 2025–

I thought I would write an update to this post now that I am five year post menopause. I’m also 22 years sober this month. Menopause finally occurred for me at 56. My periods did skip a time or two and then finally, stopped. It was weird. As a woman you spend most of your life regulated by your period. Every single thing, it oftens seems, is scheduled around it for almost forty years. It’s hard to believe, but, it’s true, our periods are very important experiences. Then one day, they’re gone. I was sad for about a week. I thought I would be sad a lot longer. Physically, I feel about the same as I did five years ago. I feel good about myself, confident in myself, and as always a sense of positive as I await the next adventure of my life–my 60’s!

Change

Do we ever get used to change. Even good change can be challenging. What about change is so incredibly hard to accept? Well, for one, it is something different to get used to. Something new to adapt to or accommodate in your day to day. Every year we have daylight savings time come and then go again. Once a year we get used to more dark or less dark, more light or less light and we lose or gain an hour of sleep. Every year we’re alive something about our mind and our body changes. Some changes early on are ever so slight, while others later on become more apparent. While you are alive, change is inevitable no matter how much you’d like it otherwise. Even though I don’t like change, I like stagnant even less.

I think what I dislike the most about change is it’s abruptness. It seems to push its way in, without asking, and makes itself at home regardless of whether you have the time, or patience, or money for it at all.

Lately, I’ve been experiencing a change in my day to day lifestyle. I’ve gone from working ten hours a day at a remote job to no work. I’ve gone from being employed at a great company for almost five years to no longer employed due to reasons that I’ve yet to fully understand. Having taken me almost two full years of job searching and countless interviews to get this job, it is beyond stressful imagining what it will take, and how long, to secure employment this time. It isn’t that I am not good at my job. I was good at my job. I was so good that I was put in charge of five other employees and instructed to train them to work as efficient and independently as I was working at my job. So, this time around my job search includes the work experience that I have had up to February 2024. Unfortunately, it also includes having to say that I was permanently laid off, let go, fired, whatever fits, and that has been a problem. Through no fault of mine own, other than accepting a position and being in my probationary period, I was let go. Upper management decided to make changes and in some departments, due to contracts being cancelled, all probationary staff were terminated. My co-workers are o.k. sitting on unemployment until it all gets worked out. I, on the other hand, am not. I was just beginning to start saving for a home and newer car, two things that we absolutely are beyond overdue looking for and then purchasing. The changes that I’ve been going through, the what if’s, the adjustments, have been terribly difficult for me this past month.

Not all is lost, I do get an unemployment check every week. Even though it’s less than half of what I used to earn, after taxes, it is absolutely better than not making any contribution at all to our household budget.

I’d like to start back to selling items full-time on eBay, but eBay took my top seller status away because I don’t make money anymore for the site, so until I can earn them a lot of money most of what I am selling is never ever seen in the search. Which is so disappointing to me, but not the first time that I have dealt with it in 25 years of selling on the site.

Even though I spend a fair amount of time creating videos for YT, it remains a hobby. You need a lot of views to make money. I enjoy making videos. I always have–even when I wasn’t making a penny doing it. The videos that I spend a lot of time making, just don’t seem to get a lot of views. I’ve accepted it and have decided to enjoy making my videos and not worry about it. I make about $30.00 a month and get a payout every three months of $100.00 and for now that’s how things are going to stay. I could change it if I took on collaborations, accepted all the free stuff companies want to send to me, and took the advice of some other YT’ers and had click bait titles, trauma after trauma, and added some spicy content or was a much more interesting person than I am. But, that’s not who I am or ever will be–so, I’ll keep doing what I’ve been doing and leave it at that..

Blessings,

xoxo

“Your life does not get better by chance; it gets better by change.” — Jim Rohn.

Fall & Winter Stock Up

Fall and winter preparation and stock up time is here. Below, I’ve put together a pantry essentials list, reminders for fall, emergency stock up lists, and fall home prep. Also, an update about our move. I hope you are all well.

Pantry Essentials –pantry essentials pdf list by Kim

Also:

  • remember the books you’ve set aside & magazines
  • last years seed catalogs until the new ones arrive
  • fall & winter prep lists
  • cozy socks
  • soft warm sweaters
  • good quality tea
  • soup and casserole recipes

 This year we’ve decided to do Christmas differently as far as gifts go. I believe we are going to go with more intentional, possibly handmade, custom made/designed or sentimental gifts that may be bought or made or have someone make. But as far as gift lists, or wants, or commercialism–nope that’s out for our household this year. I’m still working all the details out but I will share them here as I come up with them.

Update on our move–it’s complicated. Rent prices are still at an all-time high in this area for 100 miles in any direction. As of right now we are in a holding pattern, waiting really, for my husband to have his surgery, for the economy to straighten out, and hoping the direction/location to move to permanently will become clear to us.

Fall Prep–   from This Old Home

Stockpile for an emergency – how to stock up for an emergency

 

Until next time–xoxox, be safe and be well!!

 

Forest Bathing

I’ve spent at least half my life in the woods among trees. Starting at the young age of 13, I sought refuge there from the stress of school and the overprotectiveness of a parent.  Many a time I lay on the ground without a worry of ticks, or spiders, or whatever creature insect might be crawling around me. Listening as I lay there to the trees speak.  If you are reading this and find yourself hesitant, curious, doubtful, or interested—I invite you to make time to go somewhere, anywhere there are trees and quiet. Sit. Release your worries, stress, anger, hurt and relax in the sway that is a tree. Now at 55, I am still among trees (& still among them at 61) and will be long after this re-imerging trend is gone. (it reimerged again in 2025). Forest bathing or Shinrin -yoku (“taking in the forest atmosphere” or “forest bathing”) has been around since the 1980s and originated in Japan as a form of therapy in nature. I hope people try it, connect with nature, and make a vital connection between planet earth and their health, igniting in them a sense of motivation to protect both.

The scientifically-proven benefits of Shinrin-yoku include:

  • Boosted immune system functioning, with an increase in the count of the body’s Natural Killer (NK) cells.
  • Reduced blood pressure
  • Reduced stress
  • Improved mood
  • Increased ability to focus, even in children with ADHD
  • Accelerated recovery from surgery or illness
  • Increased energy level
  • Improved sleep

The National Institute of Health concludes and accepts proof—it works!  Read here

Science facts here

Forest bathing in Canada  here

Health study articles concluding forest bathing is good for you here

Shinrin-yoku explained here

Trees communicate with each other article by New Scientist here

Books about trees:

The Hidden Life of Trees by Peter Wohlleben here

Article about this book in The Guardian UK here

Walks in the Wild by Peter Wohlleben here

**these books are the best and most informative books on trees & nature that I’ve read and I know you’ll love them**

Plant a tree –here is an organization that can help you

One Tree Planted here