
The act of being welcoming, kind, and generous to guests.
xoxo

The act of being welcoming, kind, and generous to guests.
xoxo

My first bit of advice would be to build a food supply as close to your family’s preferences as possible. Your family is going to be eating from this food stock up, so it should be as close to the food you would normally eat. Keep in mind that if you buy canned goods you need power to cook them with, so–do you have a backup generator, or a cooking stove and fuel?
Second—make sure your food supply is safe, dry, sealed tight, kept clean, cool, and rotated with each and every use. Long-term rice and flour storage tips can be found here and here .
If you live in an apartment like I do, you may have to build your own pantry by sectioning off an area in your apartment and storing your food supply there. We’ve had a pantry area in our apartment for years that we created with shelves bought at Home Depot. The room it is in is usually cool, even in the summer, and we have sheets thrown over the front of the shelving to keep all sunlight away from our supply. We also have cooling/sun shading curtains on our windows to keep heat and light out of that room as much as possible. It may not look pretty, but our dry goods are safe, easy to rotate, and this has worked for us for years.
I also have a seasonal larder–one where I keep an eye on seasonal produce being sold, create a meal plan, buy it, wash it, cook with it, and also store and preserve the extra produce I buy. My seasonal larder takes some work–first I need to meal plan for the season (May-December). A plan that incorporates fresh food as it comes into season. Once I have a plan, then I need to develop the budget, and if I don’t have adequate suppliers, start looking for farmers or farm stands that will keep me stocked up on fresh produce at competitive prices. Once I’ve been to market or traveled to a local farmer’s store or farm, I then bring the produce home and wash it, process it, store it, or start creating meals from it. Some will go into the refrigerator, some into the freezer once washed and processed, and some into meals–with leftovers being turned into freezer meals. Plant starts-veg and edible flowers will be planted, seeds will be sown, w/fruit eaten right on the farm (sometimes), meat repackaged into smaller portions, eggs in the refrigerator, and dry goods into the pantry. I often buy freshly ground flour, maple sugar, misc. baking ingredients from a local Mennonite store.
The list I’ve created includes what was in my mother’s pantry in the 1970s and 80s. My grandmother’s pantry in the late 1880s and early 1900s would have included a lot more home canned items. My great grandmother’s pantry in the mid-1800s probably had 3-4 items considered dry goods, root vegetables in a root cellar, and brined meat. As time has gone on pantries have changed quite a bit. Now, modern day pantries are filled with pre-made meals, boxed and canned items to complete meals, meals in a can, tinned fruit and tinned vegetables and lots and lots of beans, rice, and snacks. There are also pantries built to hold modern day appliances, dishes, and home decor–which, of course, won’t be discussed on this blog. =)
Remember to keep in mind that if your family doesn’t eat things like oats, then don’t buy oats. If you don’t know how to make homemade bread, buns, pie crusts, or pizza crusts, then you won’t need to buy tons of flour, but try if you can, when you can, to make your own bread. The first few loaves are pretty sad looking–don’t give up!
Here is the list in PDF form pantryessentials23
Other condiments/spreads
Peanut butter, other nut butters (how could I forget Peanut butter?)
Oils other than seed oils if so inclined–jar of bacon grease, lard, or tallow
Cleaning
Vinegar
Baking
Flour (all-purpose)-general rule if you bake often is have on hand per person between 65-75# of flour per three month period of time. I don’t bake a lot, but do know how to make bread, pie crusts, and pizza crusts. So when I have those things in mind to make I make sure per 3 month cycle of time to have 60# of flour in storage (20 # per month for 3 months). There is just the two of us so 60# has worked out fine.
The above mentioned in whatever quantities you plan to use them should give you what I would consider a well-stocked pantry. You should be able to bake rolls, pie crusts, pizza crusts, cakes, cookies, and season your cooking–meat & veggies with the seasonings I’ve mentioned. I grow rosemary, thyme, oregano, and the spices for the Herbs de Provence less the chervil, marjoram, tarragon, basil, and fennel.
As far as pantry goods for meals–make sure what you have on hand is something your family eats and that it is preserved safely in containers if you plan on keeping it in stock longer than 3 months.
Purchasing: when you can as you can, try buying at the lowest price you remember it being, buy one get one, coupon item, purchase what you can store safely.
Only you can determine how much of any one thing your family needs for a 3 month supply. For our two-person household, I have cans of bush’s baked beans, soup, tuna, salmon, some white rice, honey, maple syrup, condiments, and backups of baking ingredients. Wisconsin winters can be tough. We rotate to keep our supplies as fresh as possible.
xoxo

Labor Day weekend is upon us. In a blink of an eye, I went from just getting over the fact we had an epic fail barbequing on Memorial Day weekend, to now, the end of summer. How did this happen?
Honestly, I’m sad.
My summer times have changed so much over the years. We used to go hiking, biking, and travel all over during the summer months. But, for various reasons our summers have turned into nursing a sore leg, my husband’s feet issues (plantar fasciitis) and our senior kitty who is now completely deaf. No complaints, I am happy to be alive and things could be way worse. I’m just sad because as summers go by, I’m guessing times of being (or feeling) younger and biking and lots of travel are probably over for us. I wish we both had appreciated those experiences a little more. We kind of took them for granted and acted like we’d always being doing them. I know once we are in our forever home–we will definitely be busy taking care of it for the first few years. So, I guess we’ll live with the memories and going forward learn to appreciate our experiences a little bit more.
The beginning and end of the seasons passes by faster every year. I know my elders told me this when I was growing up. I know it to be true. But, I still wonder why and I’m serious about figuring out a way to slow it down.
Where spring is the season of renewal, summer is the season of full bloom and fruit (+the fruit of our labors). A time to restock, replenish, and, of course, rest. I love the warmth, the sound of, the feel of, every single thing about the growth of, color, life, and light, of summer.
Summer is almost gone. Get out and enjoy the last little bit of the new life it brought with it. Soon, all the insects will tuck back into bed, the forest floor will begin to break down all those beautiful leaves, days will be shorter, longer nights, and then cold.
xoxo
🌿 August Reset: A Gentle Pause Before the Final Push
August is the soft exhale between summer’s wild bloom and autumn’s golden discipline. It’s not quite the end, not quite the beginning. It’s the stillness before the turn.
In many ways, August feels like a second chance at a new year.
By this point, we’ve lived through over half the calendar year—some of our intentions from January may have bloomed beautifully; others wilted quietly. Life has shifted, as it always does. And that’s okay. Growth isn’t always linear. But August? August invites us to pause, reset, and breathe.
Here’s how to embrace an August Reset—gently, intentionally, and in alignment with who you are now (not who you thought you’d be back in January).
Ask yourself:
August isn’t about pressure. It’s about awareness. No shame, no guilt—just honesty.
Declutter one small area of your life—your desk, a drawer, your inbox, your thoughts. Make space for clarity.
Try a simple ritual: light a candle, make your favorite drink, and write down what you want to leave behind this month. Burn it (safely) or tear it up. Let it go.
Choose one habit that will support your well-being and energy for the rest of the year. Not ten—just one.
Maybe it’s:
Reset doesn’t mean overhaul. It means realign.
What do you want your life to feel like as the year closes?
Not the achievements or the numbers—but the rhythm. The atmosphere. The peace. Then, ask: what small shifts can you make in August to start cultivating that energy?
Write a note to your December self. Describe what you hope they’re proud of. What you hope they feel. What you hope they remember about this August—that you slowed down long enough to hear yourself again.
Seal it. Save it. Open it when the year ends.
You don’t need to catch up. You’re not behind. You’re right on time.
Let August be your gentle invitation to begin again—not from scratch, but from experience.
Happy Reset Season 💛

for the kids or grandkids!
Easter Sunday in the 70’s –growing up on the farm.
Happy Easter!!
People seem to think on the first day of spring, or at least by Easter Sunday, that winter should be finished. That isn’t how I remember things growing up on the family farm in the 1970’s. Oh yes, there was an Easter or two, where we could wear our new spring dresses and patent leather shoes. But many times, Easter fell at a time when our world was filled with snow and cold. And then the most asked and answered question would be, “How will the Easter bunny get through all the snow?” He always made it—that’s for sure!
Prior to that day, I would have watched any and all of the religious programming on television put on by our father for our viewing pleasure–Billy Graham, Robert Schuller, and Oral Roberts. Oh, our dad loved his Evangelical preachers. My most enjoyable part of any of what showed up on television at this time of year was Jesus of Nazareth, which I still watch to this day, some 50 years later. Before the big day, mom would shop for all our favorites, including beef short ribs or sometimes ham, which were meats that she really knew how to make. Of course, her Easter table always had scalloped potatoes, sometimes scalloped corn, carrots, peas, and store bought buns warmed up. What we had for dessert escapes me now. Often times, especially when I was younger, our grandparents would be our dinner guests. Supper would be leftovers from our Easter meal, and Dad would be able to take an extra long nap in his chair.
And yes, we got Easter baskets that usually held a hollow chocolate bunny plus a big cream egg (fruit and nut or cherry) in a box, and mom would hide jelly beans all over the dining room and living room. It never took me long to find most of them–same places year after year (window sills, desk, and table) lol. Mom seemed to really enjoy making holidays like Easter and Christmas special for us.
My earliest memory of Easter was when I was 8 years old and had written a letter to the Easter bunny. Low and behold, when I woke up, he had answered my letter with muddy🐾 prints and a basket of goodies. Easter time growing up is a wonderful memory for me and one I reflect back on each and every year as the holiday arrives. Though we didn’t have baby chicks or bunnies on our farm, springtime was a time of renewal on this special place. The land after a cold, wet winter was renewed and ready for new crops. The cows began calving and our barn cats began having kittens. The first flowers I would see and smell were my grandmother’s tulips—she loved the red and yellow ones. All of the spring rains, longer days, warmer days and nights, and the return of the robins and whippoorwill are all things that I think about when I remember all of my Easters on the farm. 🐄 🐰🐤 🐱

Are these David Austin roses not the most gorgeous roses you’ve ever seen? Looking at these makes me want to escape to an English garden. Speaking of English gardens, has anyone ever taken an Enneagram test? You can find them on the internet. Sometimes they are free (you have to look around). I can’t find the link to the last one I took, but I remember my number, it is 1–the idealist and reformer. I think I consistently get 1 because I tend to be a rule follower. I just am. I feel secure, stable, and safe when I do. I don’t pretend to know why these things are so vitally important to me, but I know that everyone probably wants to feel secure and safe; some just don’t prioritize those things the way I do. I don’t think that I realized how strong my feelings were about ethics, leading an ethical life, ethical choices, thoughts, decisions, and lifestyle until I took an ethics class that really challenged me in 2006.
Speaking of enneagram’s, have you taken this cute test that features all of the houses in Nancy Meyer’s movies?
If I go by my enneagram test results (1), I would be matched up with the perfectionist, Amanda Woods, in The Holiday. That’s so not true in this case. Since I’ve watched all of them many times (I own them too), I know where my heart lies and it’s in this one:
Iris Simpkin’s House


Because when it comes to my home, clothing, and style, it’s always been about being an individualist for me.
Doesn’t Iris’s living room make you want to book a week in a cozy English cottage in Shere?
I am so there after the last two months that I’ve had, but yet, here I am on my blog. Because when life is difficult, busy, frustrating, happy, overwhelming, exceptional, where else would I be? I’m a writer. I write.
I’ve been busy with a lot of things since December’s end. One of them has been my continual transitioning from 3rd shift remote work to 1st remote work for almost forever. I may actually get it accomplished by spring. I am currently planning our early spring escape to Montreal, Canada. I’ve never been, but always wanted to. There’s no time like the present.
A recipe I tried this month: Marble and Vanilla Crepes here
Yummo!
with fillings here
Favorite book this month: Living the Lord’s Prayer

Until next time, be well and stay safe!
Lately, I’ve been running into a lot of busy people. Too busy to stop and talk, too busy to answer their phone, too busy to get this or that done, too busy to pay attention and on and on..
What’s it all about? I get that it is almost summer, one of the busiest times of the year, and everyone is buzzing around trying to enjoy it.
I’m busy too. But not so busy that I’m a busy body.
I like my rest and my peace. I’ve developed a way to get the things in my life done by way of an order of importance priority list.
My priorities:
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Until next time,🐝 well.